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Lex I discovered your work recently and I find it really valuable in a world where finding good info about the topic seemed impossible to me! You are giving to me hope and a lot of insights to reflect on: you are able to write down what I feel, creating a community of positive & realistic vibes I really needed. I am really sorry for your recent experience, please remember there are many people who appreciate your work and dedication.

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Such a lovely comment, thank you. I really appreciate your support 🧡

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You have made such a difference to me since someone first put me on to your posts about rosacea and how you manage it. I have found products through your videos, articles and recommendations that mean I no longer fear a sunny day, or the constant stream of “your face is so red”, or the well meaning, but misguided, “have you tried …” - er, no I’ve had a metaphorical bucket on my head whilst I wish the redness would magically disappear. And I rarely use my medication now - some pretty hardcore antibiotics - as I’ve found a skin care regime that actually works for me, all through your posts.

So thank you for putting yourself out there. It takes immense courage to be so open on the internet, but I am so grateful for everything you have done to raise awareness and the community you have established. Thank you!

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Thank you so much for this comment, it's so lovely. It's amazing to hear that I've helped you, it's the thing that means the most to me 🧡

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Dear Lex, I’m so sorry this has been your reward for standing up for yourself and for people with rosacea. Any rational person would find it trying, and your friends and this community will understand whatever you decide to do. Know that you have made an impact - you made something better than how you found it. That’s an incredible feat in this sick world of ours. Hug your little pup close and know you’re a goodun’.

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This comment made me cry! Thank you so much for this comment, it means a lot 🧡

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This is beautifully written. Thank you for all the content you’ve put together for the rosacea community and for being so vulnerable. I learned a lot from this article, too. It’s very insightful xx

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Thank you so much for being here and for commenting, it's restoring my faith in humanity! 🧡

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Thank you for taking the time to share the details of your experience the past few weeks. You’ve reminded me that as a reader and supporter, my active participation matters and can make a difference, hopefully offsetting a small part of the virulence you’ve encountered.

Your work has improved a lot of lives. Air hug! ❤️

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I could not have put this better, thank you so much for this thoughtful and generous comment 🧡

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This is such an interesting insight into the world of social media, which I plan on trying to get into as I train to be a counsellor. It does look like it can have a massive impact on mental health (especially if you do the moderation all by yourself!!), and it sounds like you may need a break to get some energy back. Well done for all that work you’ve done throughout the years. 10 years is massive. This has also made me think about commenting on social media posts which I never do - just likes!

My last word would be try stepping back at times, and it might make it clearer to avoid all the negativity to bring you down. It sounds like a lot! Take care 💖

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I'm so glad you found this interesting. The internet is such an ever-evolving place and I don't think we're evolving quickly enough to live well along next to it without help. I'm definitely going to take more time away and try to find ways to find the joy here, without taking on too much of the negativity. Thank you for your thoughtful comment 🧡

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Lex, I’m sorry you’ve had this rotten experience. I’ve really learned a lot about rosacea by reading your posts, on IG and FB. I don’t always comment, but do try to like everything. ❤️

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